Habibtee, I want you to remind you that Allaah ta’ala loves those He tests, Alhamdulillaah He ta’ala has chosen us to face trials. Although I know wallaahi it can be hard most times, like you feel like giving up, like no-one cares about you, wallaahi because most of the time, I feel the same, so I know you will feel the same, like your alone, and there’s no point anymore, but wallaahi Allaah ta’ala is testing your patience, and I KNOW you know that, because how many a times has someone told u about patience, or you read it somewhere, so know that, having patience is something great! And wallaahi we need patience! Because Allaah ‘azza wa jal promises delights for those who were patient in the dunya!! Don’t we wanna be among them? SubhanAllaah Ya Ukhtee both me and you know that this dunya is temporary! Its going to end! We don’t know when we will die but the reality is that the angel of death will take our souls when we least expect it! Habibtee when facing difficulty, just remember the prophets and our salaf, and the trials they had, Allaahu Akbar, then we will truly realise the statement of the Prophet صلي الله عليه و سلم when he said that the prophets receive the worst trials, then those next to them etc [something like that!] So habibtee when you feel sad and lonely, re-call Prophet Ya’qoub ‘عليه سلام who lost one of his son, and as grief overtook him, he lost his eyesight, Allaahu Akbar! So my dear sister be patient and engage yourself in supplication, just like Ya’qoub ‘عليه سلام did, when he made numerous dua’as, so increase in dua’a my dear sister, for yourself, and for myself ukhtee for verily the angel says Aameen and you too to the dua’a! My Sister, when you feel like everyone is against you, and no-one is on your side willing to support you, re-call Prophet Ibrahim ‘عليه سلام ! His own father plotted in his killing, how bad can it get? Allaahu Akbar, But still our example is in him, in which he was patient, STILL calling to tawheed and opposing the mushrikuun! Habibtee when you feel confused, and disheartened , try to imagine Ibraahim ‘عليه سلام when he was commanded to slaughter his son , SubhanAllaah, Indeed the prophet ‘alaihumu-salaatu-was-salaam, were given the most severe trials!! What about the trials, of the best example, The Prophet صلي الله عليه و سلم !? Do you think his life was easy? He had patience by Allaah, He صلي الله عليه و سلم didn’t give up, He remembered what was with His Lord, The delights, and so he strove! How would you feel when EVERYONE opposes you? Calls you names like Madman? Magician? Allaahu Akbar! Do you not want abide in Jannatul-Firdaus with The Prophets, Peace be upon them all, & the Sahabahs, the Sahabiyaat, & the Salaf-us-Saalih, May Allaah be pleased with them all. Don’t you want to be with them, drinking honey, sweet milk, wine and water, its taste will never change? Ya Bint Aadam, O Daughter of Aadam, don’t forget Allaah subhanahu wa ta’ala blessings upon you, by guiding you to the Haqq, the Truth & nothing but the Truth. The Trials you are going through, by Allaah, are nothing compared to the Prophets, The Sahabahs/Sahabiyaat & the Salafs. Then let us be patient my dear sister, and glorify our Lord ta’ala! When Allaah ‘azza wa jal inflicts us with trials, He subhaana is expiating our Sins, so We may not reach a specific rank in Jannah, so Allaah ‘azza wa jal is purifying us by testing us, Allaahu Akbar! So remain patient my loved one, because it is just a matter of time before you are granted ease, Inna Ma’al Usri Yusra, After Hardship There is Ease! SubhanAllaah! May Allaah ‘azza wa jal grant us patience, Aameen.